Generalising based on 2 feedback would not be justified. I'm guessing that some pple might aim to get a gf/bf, to improve their grades, to be a nicer person, to have more sex or quit smoking.
Whatever your commitment is, time is running out. Im listening to my favourite songs as many times as I can. Eating my favourite food as and when I want to. Reading my favourite verses over again. Singing my favourite lines until someone asked me if that's the only verse i know.
Therefore, stop being envious of what others have, stop snatching other pples bf/gf and stop ostrasising that geek in your class or that weirdly-quiet/incessantly-talking/bulimic lady in that corner of your office.