well, whether or not it happens to me is another matter altogether. My point is, since she already decided that she doesnt want him, holdin on to the relationship is jus like having him as a back up. Some girls may have thought over it and decided that they wouldn't mind. and i respect that. But if you already know for sure that you dont want him, it becomes like "oh its just in case nobody wants to marry me so at least i wont be left on the shelf."